“Patiti” Devo Bhavaha – The love of an Indian Woman
I picked this from one of the books, I'm reading about Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose. This is an extract from one of the letters his brother wrote. Maybe they might not be applicable in this present century or may not be applicable at all. Who cares!!! But still I found it pretty interesting and thought-provoking and the nerve of this person to write such a 'controversial' statement in the early twentieth century. Here is how it goes....
“The love of an Indian woman has for her husband was of less value than the one a Western woman has for hers because an Indian woman's love for her husband is a duty, while a Western woman first falls in love with a man and then gets married; which placed a higher value of her love. Love of a woman of good character is more praiseworthy than love of a woman of good character in our country because she has liberty here and must have strength of character.”
'The Lost Hero - A biography of Subhas bose'
By Mihir Bose
“The love of an Indian woman has for her husband was of less value than the one a Western woman has for hers because an Indian woman's love for her husband is a duty, while a Western woman first falls in love with a man and then gets married; which placed a higher value of her love. Love of a woman of good character is more praiseworthy than love of a woman of good character in our country because she has liberty here and must have strength of character.”
'The Lost Hero - A biography of Subhas bose'
By Mihir Bose

6 Comments:
there is no controversy prakash, i feel this is really very true, and i dont see nebody who can justify otherwise...this is true..and it is applicable now also..to a lot of people i know personally..
u mean "Pati" devo Bhavaha?
Yeah... I meant Pati... but it rhymed with atithi.. hence the change... :)
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"there is no controversy prakash, i feel this is really very true, and i dont see nebody who can justify otherwise"
What bakwas!
Love is love.
Devotion is devotion.
And although the twain do meet, you'd have to be a bonehead to confuse between the two.
"an Indian woman's love for her husband is a duty, while a Western woman first falls in love with a man and then gets married"
He confuses between love and devotion. The devotion shown by Indian women (they don't show it these days, trust me) was because of social issues. The love shown by them was because of their love. If you confuse the two, you're messed up!
A wife may make tea for the husband when he comes home, she may take off his shoes and give him the newspaper or whatever. That is devotion.
You never know what love is because you cannot peek into a woman's heart!
i guess it is just adjustment naa, after d initial phase of hopless romanticism.
n den what does it matter.
so i don think one's love has more value den d others, whhat say ?
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